With competition comes the possibility of losing. And, let’s face it, no one likes to lose, whether it’s at a board game or a sports match. But why does losing sting so much and how can it be handled better? Why losing is frustrating Picture this. You’ve just lost the final match of the football …
Why are we so concerned about other people’s opinions of us? Do you sometimes worry about what other people think of you? Maybe you’re concerned about whether you’re wearing the right outfit or anxious that you’ll say something silly during an outing or at a party. Perhaps you tend to fret over what friends might …
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What are the health benefits of the shoelace yoga pose? This pose supports hip mobility, works the muscles in the lower back, glutes and legs and stimulates the gallbladder and kidneys. It also helps to calm the mind. How to do the shoelace yoga pose Sit upright with your back straight and tall, your hips …
How oracy skills need to be developed and practised Alice Stott is director of programmes for Voice 21, the UK’s national charity for championing these skills. She says: ‘The art of speaking and listening, otherwise known as oracy, is made up of a set of skills which need to be explicitly taught and regularly practised.’ …
Why this type of social situation can cause feelings of anxiety Humans are primed to seek security – a sense of belonging is an instinctive need. So, being left out of social occasions can make you feel anxious and low and impact your perception of yourself. Introducing plans that other friends potentially won’t like might …
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Remember that the situation that has caused these negative emotions is only temporary When a friend is completely preoccupied with a new possession, it’s common to feel ignored and left out. It might feel like the focus of your friendship has shifted. It’s important to allow yourself to feel this way, but also to remember …
Why it’s important to accept that other people’s responses are outside of our control If you’ve done all you can to express your regret and there’s still no change, accepting there are some things you can make happen and others you can’t is helpful. ‘Admitting we’re in the wrong for our actions takes courage and …
How to handle a group chat situation with multiple participants One of the biggest challenges comes with the range of people involved. One member, for example, might be a close friend you share jokes with on a one-to-one all the time, some you might know fairly well, but another could be a distant acquaintance. It’s …
